Q: You talk about “in love euphoria.” What about relationships that start without this “feeling” and are more “intellectually based” Is this healthy? A (Gary Chapman): I think that’s perfectly fine. I do think, however, that the in-love experience is an important part of the relationship. I find that couples who never have that—they simply have…
Q: My fiancé always checks out girls while I am with him. Not every girl but when it happens, I feel like I am disappearing and very insulted. Should I break up the relationship? A: The choice to break up the relationship depends on how he responds when you talk to him about this issue. He…
Q: My girlfriend has a lot of friends that are guys—guys that are always flirting with her. When I mention that it bothers me that she talks to them so much, she says that they are just friends. If she is not willing to change, should I move on? A: Well I your concern is legitimate…
Q: How long is too long for an engagement? A: I would say that it depends on how long you dated before you got engaged. If you’ve dated for two years and now your engaged, I would think the wedding would come pretty soon after the engagement. But if you only dated for three months and…
Q: If I am in a dating relationship which has moved out of the ‘tingly’ love stage, how do I know that I am still in love with this person as we transition into the love languages stage? A: This is an excellent question because everybody if you date long enough will move from the euphoria of…
