Most couples that I see for counseling have not consistently dated in years. It’s an odd phenomenon that usually happens after the wedding; couples stop dating. The most common reasons I hear and see have to do with the physical proximity of living together, having a difficult time transitioning past the “I got what I…
My Uncle Biz is a retired lineman (that’s right, I said Biz. Don’t worry, it’s a nickname). As a lineman, Uncle Biz worked up in the bucket repairing power lines, transformers, and other electricity-related items I don’t know anything about. He helped provide power to the wilderness of Maine through some of the most dangerous…
What are the odds? The odds are, you plan on living happily ever after. Three-fourths of us plan to do that wedded to the perfect princess or prince charming. The quintessential romantic, Cinderella sings, “If you keep on believing, every dream that you dream will come true.” I don’t think it is from a lack…
Brag about your wife in public. Make a big deal about her. Wear a button with her picture on it. Public recognition tells everyone what you think—especially your wife. Everyone needs a fan, become your wife’s biggest supporter. And don’t do it quietly. Not only is it great for your wife and for your marriage,…
Garrison stuffs his minor annoyances. “The person I’m dating now might make a comment unintentionally that hurts me,” he said. “Instead of saying anything, I think, It’s not that big a deal, so why create conflict?” He doesn’t want to be accused of being too nitpicky or demanding. But lately he’s noticed that he has…
