Q: My fiancé spends a lot of time doing things with his friends without me. I am worried that this will continue when we get married. How do we go about balancing our time, so that we both feel fulfilled in our time together?
A: If a person is always doing things with his friends and not doing things with you—this is the pattern before you get married, don’t expect it to change suddenly after you get married. Share your concerns and hurts now while you’re in the dating process. Let’s see if he can understand what you’re saying and give you the amount of time that you need. If you can’t solve this problem before marriage, it will not simply be solved because you get married.
